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The Ancient Jewish Wedding
Parallels
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We use our church Family Life Center when
we're celebrating the Biblical Festivals to allow for a larger
crowd. The Family Life Center is divided into several
section: (1) Seating consisting of folding chairs, (2) Round
Tables for the meal at the end of the evening, (3) Rectangular
Tables for the "covered-dish" foods that guests bring, and (4)
the Various Play Sets. |
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The
Family Life Center at Covenant Bible Church in Lincolnton, NC |
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The play was performed using 5 sets: (1) A fake lake for the Bride's Mikvah, (2) The Bride's
Home with Table & Backdrop, (3) Chuppa, the Bridegroom's home,
(4) Throne - a chair covered with white & gold fabric & flowers,
and (5) The Wedding Feast Table. |
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Everyone was encouraged to wear white - the actors as well as
the congregation. |
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Dancing
during our time of Praise & Worship at the beginning of the
evening |
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CAST
Narrator 1: Andy
Narrator 2: Carolyn
Bridegroom/Messiah: Jeremy
Bride: Jeanne
Father of the Bride: Barry
Father of the Bridegroom: Doug
First Witness / Friend of the Bridegroom: Chuck
Friend of the Bride: Myrl |
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The Narrators tell the beautiful love story of the Bridegroom
and his Bride |
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Leviticus 23
24 Speak to the children of
Israel, saying, In the
seventh month, in the
first day of the month,
shall ye have a Sabbath,
a memorial of blowing of trumpets,
an holy convocation. |
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Matthew
9 15Jesus
answered, “How can the guests of
the bridegroom mourn while He is with them? The time will come
when the bridegroom will be taken from them; then they will
fast. |
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A. The first part of the Ancient
Jewish Wedding was The Betrothal. |
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The Bride (left) with her friend - busy with their daily
responsibilities |
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The
Scripture says in Hosea 2:19-20 I will betroth you to
me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, In
love and compassion. I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you
will acknowledge the LORD. |
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B. Frequently
the Bride had not met
the Bridegroom before their Betrothal. |
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1 Peter 1:8 Though
you have not seen Him, you love him; and even though you do not
see Him now, you believe in Him and are filled with an
inexpressible and glorious joy.
(This refers to the
Bride’s love for her Bridegroom - Messiah Yeshua.) |
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The
Bridegroom (right) and his father watch the girl from afar |
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C. The Bridegroom, his Father or his servant,
would approach the father of his prospective Bride with
the
“Bride Price”. |
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1 Peter 1:18-19
For you know that it was
not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were
redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your
forefathers, but with the precious blood of Messiah, a lamb
without blemish or defect. |
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1
Corinthians 6:19-20 You
are not your own; You were bought at a price. Therefore honor
God with your body.
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The
Bride's Father (left) examines the Bride-Price,
presented by the Bridegroom and His friend |
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D.
During the Betrothal process,
the Bridegroom would present a Wedding Contract
to his Bride.
The Holy Scriptures are our Ketubah. |
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Jeremiah 31: 31-33
“The time is coming,” declares the LORD, “when I will make a new
covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah.
It will not be like the covenant I made with their forefathers
when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because
they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them,”
declares the LORD. “This is the covenant I will make with
the house of Israel
after that time,” declares the LORD. “I will put my law in
their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their
God, and they will be my people.
And again in Hebrews 8:10 it says…
This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel
after that time, declares the Lord. I will put my laws in
their minds and write them on their hearts. |
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The
Bridegroom presents the Ketubah/Wedding Contract to the Bride's
Father |
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E. The father of the Bride would
then go and ask her about the proposed Betrothal and Marriage. |
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Romans 10:9-10 …If thou
shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe
in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou
shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto
righteousness; and with the mouth
confession is
made unto salvation. |
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The
Bride's Father tells her of the proposed Betrothal |
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F.
The Bride was filled with
emotions ... |
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Psalm 30:11-12
You have turned for me my
mourning into dancing; You have put off my sackcloth and clothed
me with gladness.
Ezekiel 16:8-13
8“When
I passed by you again and looked upon you, indeed your time was
the time of love; so I spread My wing over you and covered your
nakedness. Yes, I swore an oath to you and entered into a
covenant with you, and you became Mine,” says the Lord GOD.
9“Then I washed
you in water; yes, I thoroughly washed off your blood, and I
anointed you with oil. 10I
clothed you in embroidered cloth and gave you sandals of badger
skin; I clothed you with fine linen and covered you with silk.
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adorned you with ornaments, put bracelets on your wrists, and a
chain on your neck. 12And
I put a jewel in your nose, earrings in your ears, and a
beautiful crown on your head. 13Thus
you were adorned with gold and silver, and your clothing was of
fine linen, silk, and embroidered cloth.
In Revelations 3:5
Yeshua says…
“He who
overcomes shall be clothed in white garments, and I will not
blot out his name from the Book of Life; but I will confess his
name before My Father and before His angels.” |
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G. The Bride and her Father returned
to the room where the Bridegroom was waiting. |
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Matthew 26:27-29 (At the
Pesach Meal with His disciples Yeshua …)
… took the cup, gave thanks and
offered it to them, saying,
“Drink from it, all of you.
This is My blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many
for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you, I will not drink of
this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink
it anew with you in My Father’s kingdom.” |
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The
Bridegroom & His Bride drink the Betrothal cup of wine together |
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H. The Bridegroom would then present Betrothal Gifts
to his
beloved Bride. |
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James
1:17 Every good
gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from
the Father ...
1 Corinthians 12:1, 4, 8-10
Now about
spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to be ignorant.
There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit.
For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another
the word of knowledge by the same Spirit; To another faith by
the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same
Spirit; To another the working of miracles; to another prophecy;
to another discerning of spirits; to another divers kinds of
tongues; to another the interpretation of tongues: |
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The
Bridegroom presents gifts to His Bride |
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I. At this point
the Bridegroom
would depart from the home of his Bride’s family. |
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In John 14:1-3 Yeshua
said: Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.
In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would
have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And
if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take
you to be with me that you also may be where I am.
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(Left)
The Father congratulates His son on the accepted Betrothal
(Right) The Bridegroom & His Father examine the Chadar (Chuppa) |
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J.
The Bride went through a ritual washing before the wedding, called a Mikvah, which we as Believers in Messiah call Baptism.
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Mark 16:16
He who believes and is baptized will be saved. |
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The
Bride's Mikvak |
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K.
The Bride was consecrated and set
apart for a period of time while the bridegroom was away
building the house. |
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Hebrews 10:19-23
Therefore, brothers, since we
have confidence to enter the Most Holy Place by the blood of
Jesus, by a new and living way opened for us through the
curtain, that is, his body, and since we have a great priest
over the house of God, let us draw near to God with a sincere
heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to
cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed
with pure water. Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we
profess, for he who promised is faithful.
Matthew 25
1Then shall the kingdom
of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps,
and went forth to meet the bridegroom. 2And
five of them were wise, and five were foolish. 3They
that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
4But the wise took oil in
their vessels with their lamps. 5While
the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.
6And at midnight there was a
cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.
7Then all those virgins
arose, and trimmed their lamps. 8And
the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our
lamps are gone out. 9But
the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for
us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for
yourselves. 10And
while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were
ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.
11Afterward came also the
other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. 12But
he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.
13Watch therefore, for ye
know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh. |
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L. Perhaps the Bride had even seen the room
that was being added on to His Father’s house.
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Mark 13:32 But of that day
and hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven,
neither the Son, but the Father.
2 Peter 3:10
But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night. |
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The Bride watches for the coming of her Bridegroom |
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M.
When the time was right, the
Bridegroom’s Father would tell His son that the room was
completed and that it was time to go and “catch away” the Bride.
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The Bride is presented with a gold crown resembling the
Jerusalem skyline |
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Joel 2: 16 Gather the
people, sanctify the congregation, assemble the elders, gather
the children, and those that suck the breasts: let the
bridegroom go forth of his chamber, and the bride out of her
closet. |
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Sounding of the SHOFAR |
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1 Thessalonians 4
16For
the Lord himself shall descend from heaven
with a shout, with the voice
of the archangel, and with the trump
of G-d: and the dead in Christ shall
rise first:
17Then
we which are alive and remain shall be
caught up together with them
in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever
be with the Lord. |
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N. At Midnight, the Bridegroom would
go to meet his Bride. |
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Matthew 25 6And
at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh;
go ye out to meet him.
1
Corinthians 15
51Listen, I tell you a
mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed
52in
a flash, in the twinkling of an eye,
at the last trumpet.
For the trumpet will sound,
the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. |
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The
Bridegroom "catches away" His Bride |
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The
Bridegroom takes the Bride to the Chuppa (Wedding Chamber) |
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O. The
Bride would walk around the Bridegroom seven times.
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Jeremiah 31:22 ...A
woman shall compass a man. |
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The Ketubah
was signed by the Bridegroom, Bride and the two witnesses. |
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The
Bridegroom & Bride with His Father, holding the Ketubah |
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P. The Bridegroom and His Bride
would spend 7 days alone in the Bridal Chamber
or Chuppa. |
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The look in their eyes says it all! |
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Q.
On their wedding day,
the Bridegroom is seen as a king and his
Bride as a queen. |
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Dancing at the Wedding |
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The
Coronation of the King Yeshua
is another major theme of Rosh Hashanah. Messiah’s
Coronation will happen in heaven prior to His physical return to
Earth. |
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Revelation 5:11-14
11Then I looked and
heard the voice of many angels, numbering thousands upon
thousands, and ten thousand times ten thousand. They encircled
the throne and the living creatures and the elders.
12In a loud voice they sang:
“Worthy is the Lamb, who was slain, to receive power and
wealth and wisdom and strength and honor and glory and praise!”
13Then I heard every
creature in heaven and on earth and under the earth and on the
sea, and all that is in them, singing: “To him who sits
on the throne and to the Lamb be praise and honor and glory and
power, for ever and ever!”
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four living creatures said, “Amen,” and the elders fell down and
worshiped. |
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The Coronation of the Bridegroom (Messiah) |
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R.
After the marriage was consummated, there was an enormous
Wedding Feast or Marriage Supper - a
major Theme of
the Festival of Sukkot. |
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Revelation 19:7-9 Let
us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him; for the marriage
of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready.
And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen,
clean and white; for the fine linen is the righteousness of the
saints. And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they
which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And
he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God. |
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Baruch Atah YHWH Eloheynu
Melech Ha’Olam, Bore p'ri ha’gafen.
Blessed are You, O Lord our God, King of the universe,
Who creates the fruit of the vine. |
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The 2nd Cup of Wine is drunk by the Bridegroom and His Bride |
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Messiah Yeshua is coming back for a
bride that is without spot or blemish. |
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1
Thessalonians 5:1-2
Now as to the times and the seasons,
brethren, you have no need of anything to be written to you.
For you yourselves know full well that
the day of the Lord will come just like
a thief in the night.
Isaiah 62: 5
… as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God
rejoice over you. |
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Lift up your heads, your redemption
draweth nigh. “L’Shanah Tovah” - May you be inscribed for
a good year. |
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Other "Ancient Jewish Wedding Performances" |
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Check out this Link for Yom Teruah - The Feast of Trumpets -
CLICK HERE |
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A special thanks to Paul & Duke for all the great photos |
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